The R's of A Relationship

Responsible. Reliable. Responsive. Respectful. Resourceful.

Understanding the importance of and applying the R's will ultimately determine the success or failure of your relationship. In a relationship, realise that there are three parts: you, me and us--the individual parts are as important as the whole such that communication, negotiation, understanding, sacrifice and selfishness will always come into play.

Responsible. Are you able to meet the obligations of the relationship? What are your expectations? Your partner's?

Reliable. How dependable are you when a relationship need arises. (Needs can range from the mundane to crisis situations.)

Responsive. How long does it take for you to react/respond to the needs of your partner or the relationship? (Delay in responding typically leads to misunderstanding and conflict.)

Respectful. Recognise and understand individual and relationship boundaries. Consider the needs of your partner. Value your partner and the relationship.

Resourceful. Utilise your strengths, creativity and initiative to deal with problems, conflict and pursuit of relationship goals.